Things I’ve learnt in 38 years, by Tonto Dikeh

Relating her lessons, Dikeh said it was important to exercise prudence while discussing personal concerns with family and friends, arguing disclosing too much information may have unfavourable effects.

The mother of one also spoke firmly against divulging one’s precise financial situation to anyone.

She urged individuals to develop numerous sources of income, value their uniqueness, and show love to themselves always.

In Tontolet’s post tagged: “Things I have learnt in 38years,” she said: “Never tell your family everything, it will back fire. Never tell your friends everything, it will backfire. Never tell anyone how much you have in the bank, that’s for you and the bank alone.

“DONT BE TOO NICE, not everyone has your heart. Be a GOOD PERSON BUT NOT A TOO NICE PERSON.

“No one is like you, Embrace your uniqueness.. Show yourself as much love as you can!! Be selfish with your Space, Boundaries, Love and Trust.

“Multiple streams of income is the new SELF LOVE, SELF-CARE AND BIGGEST BOSS MOVE. No matter how little start something that brings daily income.

“Fixed deposits is the biggest scam, next time ask your bank you want to invest with them and watch yourself become a billionaire

“Finding closure is a scam, Move on and Rebuild. Be your own motivation to be better and do better.”