Because of the difficulties in my marriage, I am writing this. Because I brought the issue to the forum, some of you may not have been familiar with it.
I found out through her chat that my wife was having emotional encounters with another man.
Though family and pastor were involved and have tried everything to resolve the issue between us.
I have decided to forgive and forget and also give her a second chance even though it was a difficult situation for me, I decided to let go cos of my two daughters and don’t want them to share from a broken home.
Now the issue am still having is that my wife has promise to change and be a better person and also promise to cut any emotional tile with the man.
But I wasn’t confident with that, so i told her to block this guy on all social media and also delete his number so there won’t be any communication between them cos i sense if they both keep in touch, they might go back to what they were doing before.
She got angry when i told her this and she said she can’t block the guy cos they have been friends for many years even before she got married to me.
She started dating the guy last year under my roof and her reason was that i pushed her to do such act cos i wasn’t giving her enough attention and love which is totally a lie.
So house, pls just let me know if i did wrong by telling her to block the guy or i over did it.
I just felt blocking him will be best for us cos i noticed my wife is not fully detached from this guy emotionally.
