TRACKING____Nollywood actress, Lisa Omorodion took to her official Instagram page to give reasons why ladies should stop telling their friends secrets. In the long epistle she wrote, she explained that their friends will tell their boyfriends the secrets they were told at any slightest opportunity, and that does not make it a secret anymore.
According to the 30 year old, a woman who is in a relationship/in love is the wrongest person to tell secrets because they tend to tell their spouse everything they heard. She however advised ladies to stop betraying their their friend.
Your boyfriend is not my BEST FRIEND , you are my best friend . If I want him to know my secrets i will call a meeting with the two of you present and share it all.
Ladies NEVER ever tell your secrets to a woman in love. This woman in particular has certain characteristics – overly trusting, her legs jelly(aftermath of being swept off her feet a time too many) ,her stomach ridden with butterflies. Now, pillow talk is one of her favourite pastime with her new Boo; Information dished out here might even not be on a need to know basis. To some it’s for the simple reason of seeking validation to improve intimacy, for others its just GIST! Whatever the reason, secrets are spilled; mainly of the other person (you) blurring herself out of the picture while at it. After all said & said; her boyfriend can virtually see through you and in most cases judge you without you knowing.
Like a tornado, the relationship comes crashing! but guess the only thing that withstood this crash?? Your guess is as good as mine- your Secret/Gist! The ex boyfriend , the other one before this one and the one from 4 years ago have all left the building with TOO MUCH information.
A word for the unwise.. A boyfriend is NOT your husband …Stop betraying your friends!!
